#SkinnyBitchesFitInCadillacTrunks

I'm baccccccckkkk.
& handy with the rope.

Came up with a concept for a Photoshoot that was quite outta the box.

Just because you listen to 2Chainz doesn't make you gangster.
Talk a big game, expect big things.

Remember Skinny Bitches Fit In Cadillac Trunks & I look faboo in all black.

Seems like all the wrong people are saying the wrong things.
But then again talk is cheap, actions are #Expensive
& so is a Ransom.

(Make Up/Concept/Styling: @KarlaVavavoom
Photography: @Kidyosh )

Misunderstood & I don't have 2 F**ks to give.

At times I feel as though I'm disliked by people because they dont understand me.

I'm not one to think much of what people say. I tend to act freely & do as I please.
Is it because I'm weird? Or because I don't do as people want me to.

Everyone told me not to marry. To play the field & work on my career.
Let me explain one thing:
When a great thing, scratch that.
When a marvelous person comes along and offers you an infinite amount of love for you & your daughter,
A real woman can acknowledge that.
I take responsibility for all my decision.
But I'm by far happier now than I have ever been in the past.
I'm Karla Va Va Voom.
Unapologetically.
Curves. Big Mouth. Weirdness.
Blunt Honesty & ALL.

Valentina Ballerina is now 3.

To think that it's been 3 years since I was blessed with Valentina still amazes.
Amidst post training, tea parties, & life lessons, I feel as though Valentina has taught me the most important one:

Time is a gift, & one that goes by quickly.

Remember to always appreciate those around you.
Last month I had a Cancer scare due to having Ovarian problems. The thought of not being able to be their for both Valentina, Emery & my husband scared me beyond belief.

As of lately ive realized that all the little things, the good days & bad, are still days your given none the less.

So to be able to stand here & see my daughter turn 3 & realize how intelligent, beautiful & full of personality she is.. Is the ultimate gift.

Thank you Valentina for everything you've taught me.
DaddyTy & myself will try our hardest to make you the best person you can be.

They only Love you when they Need you.

Why is it moths only come to the flame when it's lit?
Yet when it's not flickering the moths can fly by & never notice it?

This happen in humans also.
People only want your company when your relevant & successful.

Now if that's the case, make sure that the moment you do hit your prime you have the RIGHT people surrounding you, who truly have your best interest at heart.

Remember, never bite the hand that feeds you or the heart that heals you.

Being given love is a blessing & a
opportunity that not everyone has a been offered.

So remember this, when your "Popular" & your flame is bright, all kinds of insects & moths will come to you.
But make sure your light is attracting the right ones.

Everyone LOVES you when they Need you. But when hungry or need not everyone will Feed you.

The truth about marriage

Now when your picking out a wedding gown & he's getting fitted for a tux, no one is going to tell you the truth about marriage.

For one reason & one reason only.
Marriage takes hard work.
You sign on to stand by someone with flaws & hope try accept yours.

In the old days people use to stay married for years & years til one person buried another, NOW people go through spouses like I go through socks.
And I have TONS of fuzzy socks. Lol

No but seriously I believe that in this day & age, where everything has been made so easy & you can see if the "grass is supposibly greener" on the other side with a click of a button... The thought of standing by ONE person forever seems ridiculous.

Sometimes people do Marry someone hoping they would change or they just marry the Wrong person.

& that's just fine. I Understand that.
Trust me.

Marriage is promising someone you'll fight by their side, and at times you'll fight them. But at the end of the day your a team, you swore to each other till death do you part.

There will be days when you can't stand your mate, the way he folds his napkin will irk you, or if he doesn't put the cap on the toothpaste.
But marriage is bigger than that.

Remember all the reasons why you walked down to the alter with the person you chose.

There will be days when the spark isn't as bright or the butterflies aren't flapping as hard as usual.

At the end of the Day, you love eachother. I'm blessed with a husband who maybe a pain in the butt at times, but even when things get tough, he reminds me that we promised to fight together.

We never say the dreaded "D" word in our house. (div--ce)
That's not an option in our house.
We have 2 babies who love us & think we're the disney prince & princess in the movies.
And We plan on keeping it that way

No matter how hard things might get. I swore to stand by his side, & him by mine.
That's all that matters.

#NotForTheFaintOfHeart

We meet again.
The names KarlaVaVaVoom & the pleasure is all mine. Lol.

Well decided to do an impromptu photoshoot... In between the kids, husband & dabbling in a few small businesses, it's refreshing to be able to feel sexy & let that inner VaVaVoom as they say come out.

Enjoy.
I'm more comfortable in my own skin now that I'm older. Oh the irony.
Instagram & Twitter: @KarlaVaVaVoom

"Not For The Faint Of Heart"

Greater, Equal to or Lesser than?

Is your partner the equivalent of you?

Now be careful how you answer that because you might end up humping the couch tonight depending on your response. Lol.

You always see couples where one is, how can I say this politely... Superior. No. A better person? No. Less Flawed? No that's not it either.
A Better Half.
There you go.

However, what happens when both people seem to be practically equal?

Both are personable with big personalities, motivated, ambitious & dare I say competitive. Now on top of that, let's say their both 'Easy on The Eyes'.

How does that dynamic work?
Let me just say its not easy. It's somewhat of a power struggle. He def. has a dominant alpha male way of being but then again, I've always been a alpha female, a LATINA alpha female at that. Yes. I'm a bossy hot blooded mess at times. Lol.

It takes LOTS of patience.
Did I say Lots what I meant was COLOSSAL amounts of patience.

Trying to find the balance in a relationship is never easy.
Especially when your in it for the long haul, throw in babies & a house & bills.

He's going to have his weaknesses & strengths. You have to be able to adapt. One day you'll have to help him up & brush his shoulders off & give him a smack on the ass to pep him up.
If your willing to put In the work, the day you need a shoulder to cry, an extra hand around the house or just a gentle caress after a long day... Your Other half will be there for you.

So is your partner equivalent to you? Maybe not exactly. But 2lbs of apples are equivalent to 2lbs of bananas aren't they? Your both completely different but god willing, your equal in each others eyes.